Showing posts with label golden rule. Show all posts
Showing posts with label golden rule. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Munificent – Wordplay Wednesday™ 02/19/2020


A Disgrace to the Forces of Evil 

As you’ve likely heard, a certain infamous, wealthy business owner is in the news for offering billions through his self-named fund to assist in combating climate change. Certainly a generous and noble effort.

As much as he should be applauded, we all know someone who may not possess great wealth, yet never hesitates to offer assistance to those in need throughout his day. Small gestures count too, they just don’t get public kudos …

MUNIFICENT (myōō nifʹɘ sɘnt) adj. – 1) very generous in giving; 2) characterized by or indicative of great generosity (a munificent reward). [WW #256*]

Not to be confused with maleficent: harmful, hurtful, evil – emerging as a popular household name with Walt Disney’s portrayal of Sleeping Beauty’s evil fairy godmother – Maleficent: Mistress of All Evil. She is an exquisite antithesis of munificent. The years roll by. But a hundred years to a steadfast heart are but a day.
 
Thinking about this week’s word reminded me of a friend who exemplifies munificent every day. He’s enjoying his 60-something birthday today (and a member of our 39 and Holding Club of course) with his usual humor and humility.

In a recent chat, we discussed how we’ve changed as people since our youth. And thankful for it! Successful aging and maturing (not always hand-in-hand) should include a more generous and compassionate nature, in deed and thought. Not always easy to maintain in our current virulent society.

Admittedly, my friend is more altruistic than I—he never turns away anyone who truly needs assistance and strives to live “neighborly”—in a munificent and courteous manner.

If only everyone would display the Golden Rule like my friend: Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.

Word Challenge: MUNIFICENT. It is not always easy to plausibly justify the behavior of generosity and beneficence in your fiction characters or non-fiction subjects. Give it another go as you fit munificent into your week of magnanimous writings.

Learning knows no prejudices or boundaries, and it isn’t fattening! Expanding your mind is a no-cost, simple joy. Do you feel that way too? What’s your inspiration? Share your creative genius and Wordplay Wednesday comments below.

Write first for yourself … only then can you write for others. (L.Rochelle) 


[LinDee Rochelle is a writer and editor by trade, and an author by way of Rock & Roll. She has published two books in her Blast from Your Past series (of three) about pioneering R&R Radio DJs. True behind-the-mic tales make GREAT Holiday and anytime Gifts available on Amazon (eBook and print): Book 1Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The First Five Years 1954-1959; and Book 2Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The Swinging Sixties. Coming soon … The Psychedelic Seventies!]

*Note: 1) Dictionary definitions are quoted from Webster’s New World College Dictionary. Yes, we sometimes present them out of “official” context—but that’s half the fun! Think of it as “creative context.” 2) Neither I (LinDee Rochelle) nor Penchant for Penning are responsible for how you use information found here, that may result in legal action.
Endnote: FYI – All links in the PFP site are personally visited, verified, and vetted. Most are linked to commonly accessed sites of reputable note. However, as with everything cyber-security, use at your own discretion.

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Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Contumelious – Wordplay Wednesday™ 12/04/2019


Give Kindness a Chance 
‘Tis the season! There are many ways one can become a grinch. We are the sum of our experiences and if life has short-sheeted us, we believe we have every reason to be grumpy.

However … if you give kindness a try … you just might find … it’s better to be kind than …

CONTUMELIOUS (känʹtyōō mē lē ɘs) adj. – rude in a contemptuous way; insulting and humiliating (adv. – contumeliously). [WW #245*]

A contumelious attitude boils down to lack of respect for others. The Golden Rule is a good remedy: Do unto others as you would have others do unto you. Bonus: it’ll make you feel better too.

Would you like it if a contumelious person let the heavy office door slam in your face, while you precariously juggled briefcase, coffee, and phone?

Characteristic contumelious behavior can be effectively reversed, if you give kindness a try. Life is too short to wear a continuous frown and doing something nice for someone opens more than a door … it opens your heart.

References in literature abound, pointing to a “civilized society.” One does not exist, nor has one ever. There shall never be one, as long as contumelious people have no desire to see that a better way to live is with kindness.

Sadly, with the freedom of the Internet and social media, contumelious insults and humiliation have escalated in our everyday lives. Who knew there were so many mean people in the world?

This month should be about giving … not simply a donation to charity or needy family, but in heartfelt actions, too.

Smile at a stranger; smiles are like ripples in a pond … benevolently boundless. Pay for the coffee of the person ahead of you in line and start a pay-it-forward act of kindness that will last far beyond the last sip of java.

Post a feel-good social media message and vow not to react with venom to the contumelious messages in your feed. If you must respond, do it with constructive criticism in a voice of kindness.
Word Challenge: CONTUMELIOUS. Create a New Year’s resolution of daily kindness (easy and enduring), as you fit contumelious into your week of compassionate writings.

Learning knows no prejudices or boundaries, and it isn’t fattening! Expanding your mind is a no-cost, simple joy. Do you feel that way too? What’s your inspiration? Share your creative genius and Wordplay Wednesday comments below.

Write first for yourself … only then can you write for others. (L.Rochelle) 


[LinDee Rochelle is a writer and editor by trade, and an author by way of Rock & Roll. She has published two books in her Blast from Your Past series (of three) about pioneering R&R Radio DJs. True behind-the-mic tales make GREAT Holiday and anytime Gifts available on Amazon (eBook and print): Book 1Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The First Five Years 1954-1959; and Book 2Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The Swinging Sixties. Coming soon … The Psychedelic Seventies!]

*Note: Dictionary definitions are quoted from Webster’s New World College Dictionary. Yes, we sometimes present them out of “official” context—but that’s half the fun! Think of it as “creative context.”
Endnote: FYI – All links in the PFP site are personally visited, verified, and vetted. Most are linked to commonly accessed sites of reputable note. However, as with everything cyber-security, use at your own discretion.

E-N-Dzzzzzzzz