Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 22, 2020

Atavism – Wordplay Wednesday™ 12/23/2020

 REFLECT, REJOICE & Next Week REJUVENATE! 

Last week I suggested December 2020 may not hold the nostalgic reflection of past years. In reflection (馃槉), perhaps it is filled with even more nostalgia than recent Holiday Seasons, as we review the year’s devastating losses and debilitating illness that paradoxically, tore us apart, yet brought us together.

The old saying, “Hindsight is 2020,” couldn’t be more appropriate. Ruminating over the year, as every year, we see in hindsight what we may have done differently, more/less of, or simply better. Reflection is good for the soul and never more so than when we contemplate family … losses, gains, good or bad. Especially this year.

For many, family values are significantly more meaningful even as we are mostly apart. Whether by Zoom or in person this Holiday, look around you with joy and try to recognize how you might be reflected in your family by …

ATAVISM (at使蓸 viz使蓸m) n. – 1) appearance in an individual of some characteristic found in a remote ancestor but not in nearer ancestors; 2) a] such a characteristic, b] an individual with such a characteristic (also a使a vist; adj. at’avis’tic, atavic (蓸 tav使ik); adv. at使avis使ti cal ly). [WW #300]

 If you’re fortunate enough to have access to photographs of past family generations, this is a great time to take another look and see if you can spot the atavism most surely apparent. Ever wonder why you look like your Grandpa John on your mother’s side but not like her or your father?

As a youngster decades ago, when society was less tolerant of physical features, I often felt relieved that my hair flowed straighter, like my grandmother’s and less unruly than my mother’s frizzy Irish roots. Of course, my father’s Germanic straight hair likely helped, but other facial features are evident in past family photos, too. What do you see in your current family that echoes atavism of your ancestors?

Good or bad—keeping in mind that beauty is highly subjective—we are a reflection of our ancestors. Let your atavism be a source of pride while you Reflect on 2020 with acceptance, and Rejoice in its small victories that will carry you forward. Next week we’ll Rejuvenate for 2021!

Warm wishes for a joyful Christmas … Yours in Peace and Patience ~ LinDee 

Word Challenge: ATAVISM. It’s great when you love your family features, but if not, change what you can and accept what you cannot change, as you fit atavism into your week of familial writings and casual conversations.

Write first for yourself … only then can you write for others. (L.Rochelle) 

Cheers to learning a new word today, and Merry Christmas!

@PenchantForPen
@Irishwriter

Learning knows no prejudices or boundaries, and it isn’t fattening! Expanding your mind is a no-cost, simple joy. Do you feel that way too? What’s your inspiration? Share your creative genius and Wordplay Wednesday comments below.

[LinDee Rochelle is a writer and editor by trade, and an author by way of Rock & Roll. She has published two books in her Blast from Your Past series (of three) about pioneering R&R Radio DJs. True behind-the-mic tales make GREAT Holiday and anytime Gifts available on Amazon (eBook and print): Book 1Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The First Five Years 1954-1959; and Book 2Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The Swinging Sixties. Coming soon … The Psychedelic Seventies!]

LR Notes: 1) Dictionary definitions are quoted from Webster’s New World College Dictionary. Yes, we sometimes present them out of “official” context—but that’s half the fun! Think of it as “creative context.” 2) a] Recent dictionary additions to definitions include a date of first use, if known; b] words in small caps indicate “see also.” 3) Neither I (LinDee Rochelle) nor Penchant for Penning are responsible for how you use information found here, that may result in legal action.
         
*And please note, I do not receive compensation from any company or person for commercial or commodity links I may include in my posts.

E-N-Dzzzzzzzz  

 

Wednesday, May 30, 2018

Cousinage – Wordplay Wednesday™ 05/30/18


We Are Family …  

Summers are great for BBQs, weddings, and all sorts of fun family happenings. If you’re fortunate, there are a few attendees your own age, and/or some you’ve “known forever.”

Whatever your stage in life, often those you shared a childhood with have formed a familiar …
 
COUSINAGE (kuz使蓸n ij) n. – the state or condition of being a cousin, the relationship between cousins, kinship; 2) a group of cousins or of relatives. [WW #166]

Not all are lucky to enjoy the closeness of family, whether a mile or a thousand miles away. I thank our family values for the bond between cousins by birth, who are best friends by the grace of our cousinage.

Like me, everyone should have at least one cousin whose closeness qualifies as a pseudo-brother or sister. If you’re not so blessed, take heart …

They say we can’t choose our family … I beg to differ! “Cousin Brucie”* Morrow of New York City’s pioneering radio broadcasting fame, created an enviable cousinage with his fans that endured endearingly for more than fifty years. (*Read his story in Books 1 & 2 of Blast from Your Past!: Rock & Roll Radio DJs 1954-1959 and The Swinging Sixties.)

It’s comforting when some of our friends are accepted into a close cousinage, as well. I am honored that three of my best friends have stuck around to listen to me whine and carry on dramatically, through an extraordinary number of years; well beyond the scope of many family members. Cheers to finding family in your friends.  

Cousins are many. Best friends are few. What a rare delight to find both in you. ~ Anonymous

Word Challenge: COUSINAGE. Whether biological or chosen, our kooky and comforting extended cousinage make life worth the effort. Let them know how much it means to you as you fit cousinage into your week of familial writings.

Learning knows no prejudices or boundaries, and it isn’t fattening! Expanding your mind is a no-cost simple joy. Do you feel that way too? Share your comments below, about Wordplay Wednesday or learning in general. What’s your inspiration?

Write first for yourself … only then can you write for others. (L.Rochelle) 

                       

  
LinDee Rochelle is a writer and editor by trade, and an author by way of Rock & Roll. She has published two books (of three) in her Blast from Your Past series, available on Amazon (eBook and print): Book 1Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The First Five Years 1954-1959; and Book 2Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The Swinging Sixties. Coming soon, … The Psychedelic Seventies!

E-N-D

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Wordplay Wednesday™ December 21, 2016 – Imperative



[I totally lost yesterday. Pretend this was posted Wednesday.  馃槒馃槈]

A Ringing Word-wise Wordplay 

In these hectic days leading into various religious Holidays and a promising New Year, we ask ourselves, what  is truly important in life? Or do we?

We are often so caught up in day-to-day survival and the hustle and bustle of the Holiday activities that we tend to overlook ourselves, and if we’re actually happy. Perhaps it’s time to take a quiet moment and ask yourself that question.

In the whole scheme of the Universe and your life, it is imperative that you know …

*IMPERATIVE (im per使蓸 tiv) adj. – 1 having the nature of, or indicating, power or authority; commanding [an imperative gesture]; 2 absolutely necessary, urgent, compelling [it is imperative that I go] …   [WW #91]

A few days before Christmas, what is important this week?

In my first thoughts of the day, as I recalled Christmases past, family and friends, I wrote that it was imperative to spend quality time with them; not just this week, but throughout the year. Life is short, unpredictable, and extremely fragile.

I looked at what I wrote and questioned the correct definition of imperative. Did it display the right emotion for what I sought to convey?

To be honest, I did not look first this time, to my trusty hardbound dictionary. Too lazy to pick it up, I right-clicked my mouse for Microsoft’s mostly-correct-but-sometimes-a little-off synonyms. The meaning I’d meant hit the bottom of the list—was this not a preferred definition? Hmmmm.

Although I could be wrong (don’t tell anyone I said that) I pursued confirmation that imperative carried the heavy weight of importance. Nope—Microsoft says:
-          authoritative
-          domineering
-          bossy
-          imperious
-          overbearing
-          commanding
-          vital

Really?! Vital, the synonym that came closest to what I had in mind, dragged at the bottom of the list.

Heading online to my go-to dictionary site I found:
Definition of imperative
  1. 1 a :  of, relating to, or constituting the grammatical mood that expresses the will to influence the behavior of another b :  expressive of a command, entreaty, or exhortation c :  having power to restrain, control, and direct
  2. 2 :  not to be avoided or evaded :  necessary <an imperative duty>
Again, the most applicable definition for this word, as the majority of us use it, brought up the rear. Yet, when seeking the synonym of important, we do find imperative in Microsoft’s robo-synonyms at the lofty third position (of eight). Go figure. 

*That’s when I belatedly picked up the three-pound, seventeen-hundred-page tome next to my desk. Finally the 21st century printed dinosaur validated imperative’s elusive synonym for vitally important, as you see it above, albeit, relegated to second place.

The moral of this Christmas story, is don’t take the “word” of only your digital devices when it comes to writing—especially for publication. Know what you’re saying, mean what you say—especially when you speak to those who matter most to you.

And with that … back to my original morning thought … it is imperative during this busy season while giving to and doing for others, to ask yourself who and what makes you happy? Such a simple question, right? If it is, then you aren’t asking it in all sincerity.

Word Challenge: IMPERATIVE.Write first for yourself. Only then can you write for others.” (1998, L. Rochelle). That applies to your happiness, as well. Go ahead … fit imperative into your week of meaningful Holiday writings.

                       



* Sometimes it’s in your best interest while writing, to “let your fingers do the walking,” and consult the good ol’ hardbound dictionary. (The archaic but still iconic promo has lost its relevance for the Yellow Pages, but works good here.)

Just a reminder: All of the official definitions presented in Wordplay Wednesday are accurately quoted from a current, printed edition of the Webster’s New World College Dictionary / The Official Dictionary of The Associated Press Stylebook.

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